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you enjoy every issue of our newsletter. With that goal in mind,. please send us an e-mail message at info@carnegiestl.com
if you have any suggestions regarding topics you would like to hear
about in future “issues”. In This Newsletter: Articles: Back to the Human Relations Basics
1.
Don’t
criticize, condemn, or complain – How do we react when people criticize us,
even when it is deserved? This is a great
time-management principle. If we spend
less time in negative thought, we could spend more time looking for
solutions. 2.
Give
honest and sincere appreciation
– Don’t we love to be recognized by others for something we are proud
of or for strengths we didn’t realize we had until they were pointed
out to us? Look for strengths in others,
and let them know that you recognize them. You
might develop a more positive outlook. 3.
Arouse
in others an eager want –
Don’t we enjoy being around enthusiastic people? When
buying, don’t we prefer a product where the spokesperson looks
generally excited about the product? How
do you sound when you try to sell an idea? 4.
Become
genuinely interested in the other person – We really open up when we believe others
want to take the time to learn about us. Opening
up to each other creates a more human connection. Being
genuinely interested takes a mindset change that may open us up to
learning ideas we may never have expected or accepted if we stayed
focused on ourselves. What can you learn? It could be exciting. 5.
Smile
– Aren’t we more
likely to connect with someone who smiles. A
smile changes our mindset and lets others know we are easy to be around. This is a simple human relations tip that you
can start using right now. Someone might
come up to you and wonder what you are up to. 6.
Remember
names – When others remember
our names, don’t we believe they are interested in us?
Remembering names is the first step to remembering
more about a person. It allows us to
attach details to a person. Wouldn’t
knowing more names allow you to be more confident around other people? 7.
Be
a good listener – We love it
when others let us talk. Many times we
find ourselves looking for the opportunity to talk when others are
talking. From a personal growth
perspective, we learn more when we listen than when we talk. 8.
Talk
in terms of the other person’s interest – When others continue talking on subjects we
were talking about, we become more comfortable. We
realize they were listening to us and appreciate them more. An interactive dialogue is the result, and we
can use this to build on the relationship. 9.
Make
the other person feel important,
and do it sincerely – We enjoy it when
others think we are important. The reality
is we are all important; and hopefully, we do our part to make this a
more enjoyable world. When we sincerely
search for why people are important and let them know, we help them
have a positive impact on others. We build
a better relationship.
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